The American Dream has long been associated with material success and individual achievement, but a recent study by Harvard happiness expert Robert Waldinger reveals a crucial missing ingredient: a sense of community. Waldinger's research highlights the importance of social connections in achieving success and a good life, challenging the traditional notion of the American Dream. In this article, we explore the tension between pursuing opportunity and maintaining community, and how this dynamic has evolved over time. We also delve into the psychological and cultural factors that contribute to the de-prioritization of community in American society, and offer insights into how individuals and society can prioritize social connections to achieve a more fulfilling and successful life.